Gay black wrestlers

This firsthand narrative originates from a discussion featuring Princey, a grappler recognized as "Totally Plastic" Pha'Nesse, who also engaged in drag under the mentorship of drag mother Priyanka, the victor of "Canada's Drag Race," highlighted in the HBO production "We're Here," currently available for streaming on Max. The conversation underwent modifications to enhance clarity and brevity.

My initial exposure to wrestling occurred during my infancy.

I was raised as the youngest among my two elder siblings. Since my earliest years, wrestling has consistently held a presence in my life. I recall possessing the action figures, engaging with the video games, and immersing myself entirely — I was utterly captivated.

As I matured, my interest waned somewhat, only to be reignited around the age of eighteen. The passing of my mother when I was twenty-three left me in a state of sorrow and melancholy. While idly switching channels, I stumbled upon "Monday Night RAW." While watching alongside some friends, a realization dawned upon me: "Why am I not pursuing this endeavor?"

Being an openly gay Black individual in Murfreesboro was generally looked down upon while growing up. I concealed my true self as a means of preventing insults or attacks. Princey was essentially this reserved person, who didn't socialize a great deal, but rather engaged in my own personal activities.

Initially, upon entering the wrestling scene, I exhibited shyness and reserve. I was informed that such behavior was unacceptable. I was instructed to amplify my true self. Consequently, I understood that I needed to shed the inhibitions I had accumulated.

Eventually, I created my wrestling persona as 'Totally Plastic' Pha'Nesse

I discovered the Crux Wrestling training facility under the guidance of my coach, Brian Maxwell, as well as Kerry Awful, subsequently attending a class within Maxwell's yard. After some initial practice, they commended me as a "natural," which left me surprised.

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I persisted in my attendance, acquiring fresh knowledge each weekend. It served as a primary distraction from the emotional distress caused by my mom's passing. I could simply be my authentic self in this secure environment.

Following my attendance at a show within the TWE arena, I encountered everyone and experienced an immediate sense of connection. Upon examining their social media profiles, the initial element — an uncommon occurrence within the South — was their public declaration, affirming TWE's condemnation of both homophobia and racism. I resolved to dedicate myself to becoming a member.

During my formative years and involvement in wrestling, I found myself profoundly mesmerized by the female wrestlers. In my perception, they were incredible, conveying captivating narratives typically within a span of five minutes. There was an abundance of showmanship and charisma, prompting me to believe this closely resembled drag.

Initially, I intended to use "Princey" as my wrestling moniker, but my instructors dissuaded me. Subsequently, "The Pha'Nesse" was considered, but I expressed my preference for retaining "Pha'Nesse" without the preceding "the."

The intention behind "Totally Plastic" was to embody a malicious, unpleasant persona. It was expected by my coaches that I'd portray a villainous character. Nevertheless, upon my debut match held in Alabama, the spectators immediately erupted in cheers when I entered the stage. Subsequently, I determined that assuming a villainous role was untenable. I felt too much affection for the audience.

Thus, Totally Plastic endured, evolving into a flamboyant individual characterized by a fondness for everyone.

I cultivated enhanced self-assurance via drag and relaying my tale on HBO's 'We're Here'

A considerable degree of anxiety accompanied my participation on "We're Here."

The show's premise was initially unknown to me. The casting director described it as a docuseries chronicling individuals originating from diverse backgrounds. I was not aware that HBO or this kind of platform would air it!

Upon learning of the show's renown, I experienced a period of uncertainty. I refrained from confiding in the majority of my relatives. I only informed my aunt, along with my friends, and they encouraged me to participate. They felt that my experiences had provided me with a relevant story to share, potentially inspiring viewers who found themselves in a similar predicament.

I felt driven to emulate the influence that the divas and wrestling had on me. I wanted to serve as a source of motivation for someone.

I mastered the routine within three days, and upon seeing my outfit and wig, I knew I would make a stellar appearance. I told myself that as a member of the House of Priyanka, I must maintain a high standard. Because she is a skilled dancer, I understood I would need to fully commit to the task.

Consequently, I approached it similarly to a wrestling match: I understood my role, what was expected of me. Priyanka offered invaluable assistance. It resembled having a wrestling coach, with the distinction that she was my drag mother.

At present, I believe Princey and Pha'Nesse are one and the same.

I'm now equipped to voice my opinions concerning situations I find objectionable, and I attribute this to Pha'Nesse, signifying my transition into my authentic state. Being surrounded by individuals who praised me, boosted my self-esteem. I am grateful to have participated.

Frankly, I struggled with self-doubt. However, if I'm the only one questioning my abilities while others express their confidence, then self-reflection is in order.